It has always bothered me that articles are printed in major publication claiming to be the over-riding authority on relationships and how a woman should “perform” for her man. I feel strongly that there is no “one size fits all” when it comes to a couple being intimate. However, it is laughable to read some of the things that are printed today.
Don’t get me wrong, there are some nuggets of good information, but come on…
Are we to believe that this is what women think works? All of the time?
So I checked out an article in Cosmopolitan on-line and was amazed at the lack of insight when it came to “His 9 Pleasure Triggers”. Why was I interested? I’m always up for learning something new, but at the same time, I didn’t want there to be any confusion if there was less than accurate information.
Here is what I found and some of these are just staggering:
1. The Outside of His Lower Lip
2. The Front of His Neck
3. His Nipples
4. The Dip Under His Ankle
5. His Perineum
6. His Shaft
7. The Head of His Penis
8. The Seam of His Testicles
9. His Frenulum
At a glance this list is laughable. I was SHOCKED to think that this was groundbreaking male pleasure spot news. Alright, a few are acceptable and even worth a try, but “The Dip Under His Ankle”? Please! If a woman removed my shoes and socks, then thought I was going to become extremely aroused from an ankle job, we would both be disappointed and possibly a little angry. I am not that complicated and neither are many other men.
So, to be fair, I read on. His Shaft, okay, tell me more. Is it possible that we have something here? Ouch! This sounds torturous! The technique is nothing I would ask to have performed on me! Would it work on some men? Perhaps, but this is what bring me to the real point of this horrible review.
What REALLY Works?
Do you want to know what works for me? Why?
There is only one person who needs to know that. She has dinner with me, sleeps with me, and more important than any other thing, talks openly and honestly with me. She is the one who has all of the good information, not some made up crap in an on-line magazine. Can we get new things from publications? Sure, but don’t just rush in without some conversation and expect the world to tilt on its axis.
MY favorite pleasure spot is my ear. No, not just licking and nibbling on it (well, that too). Talk to me and let’s get honest and open about what works (and what doesn’t). Call me and let me know that tonight is MY night and that you remember our last conversation about… (Take a moment and fill that blank in). Text me and share a new thought about our last sexual encounter and how we are going to do it better in our next. Send me a photo of something new you are trying on at the mall, but let’s just talk. I get turned on the most over our open discussion about our sex life and what we need, want and desire for and from each other.
The rest is…