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How To Overcome Communication Problems In Relationships

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If you want to even begin thinking of saving a relationship the first place you should start is on your communication with your partner. If you’re not communicating that’s not a good thing. Here are a few tips for you to try to overcome your communcation problems in relationships and start saving your relationship

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Relationship Advice For Women Five Tips For Avoiding Heartache

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Relationship advice is everywhere.  There is definitely no shortage of it in sight. Where there seems to be a lack of advice is around how to avoid bad relationship from the beginning.  The first thing you need to do is identify a few things for yourself.  Here is the short list.

Know Your Type

What type of man do you want to attract.  Most women spend their time getting ready, primping themselves up, and working on the right now.  What they should be doing is identifying what type of man they want. I’m certainly not talking about the fantasy type things (tall, dark, and handsome).  What I’m talking about are attitude, does he want kids, are you looking for someone who is mature.  What traits are important to you.  Think about them and write them down.

The one thing to watch out for are contradictions in what you are looking for in you man.  For instance, if you want someone who is strong and silent you should get upset if the one you found doesn’t share his feelings very often.  Take a close look at the traits you want in a man and make sure they don’t conflict.

Establish Your Limits

Limits or boundaries are typically known to most people as “deal breakers”.  These will be your guidelines for knowing that a man is not right for you.  As an example, if he were ever to physically abuse you, have a criminal background, or have any sort of addiction, that might be a sign for you to hit the road and don’t look back.  These will be your hard limits that you will not cross.  I’ts important to have them.

The one thing you must do is uncover what your boundaries are before you get involved with someone.  Once you’re involved you may find it hard to implement your limit because other emotions are too high.  The easiest way to do it is to set those limits early.

One thing you can do to improve your success around deal breakers is to let a friend know.  And to ask her to hold you accountable to those deal breakers.  Sometimes you might get blinded by love and not see as clearly as you should.  Having a friend to remind you and point things out could help in the long run.  Ultimately you have to make the decision.

Learn The Signs Of Your Ant-Man

Keep track of how men treat you.  Watch to see what behavior is exhibited when he does certain things.  Watch for patterns.  These will be your early detection system if something is wrong.  You should be interested in the signs of an alcholic, someone who abuses women, someone who cheats, and those bad boy traits.  You want to know what you’re getting into and see the signs early so you can get out if you have to.

It’s not rocket science.  And you don’t have to stay and help every man.  What you can do is help him get help if he needs it.  That way you don’t abandon him.  There are ways to handle everything.  You just need to find the best way.

Listen To Your Gut

I’m sure you’ve heard it before.  If something is nagging you about a situation or a certain man, maybe you should listen to the nag.  It’s usually your brain trying to give you a clue about something.  If nothing else talk to a guy friend or a girl friend about what’s giving you the sensation.  You might be able to talk about exactly what is nagging you and then work on it or address it.  What ever you do, don’t ignore it.

Watch Out For Love At First Sight

Yes, its possible to meet someone and just know.  But don’t accept it for face value.  You still need to learn who this person is.  You still need to find out if you’re a match long term.  You still need to learn each other’s quirks.

Whatever you do, take your time.  Love is something that is cultivated and made better with time.  The key is having conversations, watching out for what’s right for you.  And knowing that you have your best interest at heart.

Take the time to get clear on the things I’ve mentioned above.  You’ll find that you get better results with the men you choose and you’ll be more prepared to handle situations that come up.

Love… to infinity and beyond.

Jay

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Saving A Relationship – Understanding The Wife Husband Relationship

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Before you can fix anything you have to know where you are. Before you know what’s going on you have to know what parts are involved. Here are few tips to help the husband and wife connection and in the end help build a strong lasting relationship.

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Forever In Love – Romance Tips For Married Couples

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Here are a few tips to add some spark to your romance.  Too much is never enough when it comes to adding romance in your relationship.

Enjoy!

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Tiger Woods Cheating…What’s Next

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I’m sure you’ve been watching the news and know that the Best Golfer In The World, Tiger Woods has cheated on his wife…  With that being said, I have to imagine that he’s scrambling right now to save this marriage with his wife.

Anyway, as I was sitting here… I was wondering what your thoughts are on the situation.  So I’ve put up a poll to get your opinion.

Save This Marriage Or Not?

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Ok, now for my opinion.

If Tiger and his wife are truly in love with each other they should do everything they can to work out their problems.  I understand he cheated so she may not have a problem other than that… but I believe they need to get to the root cause.

There are known addictions out there, like sex addition and alcoholism, that can consume someone beyond their control.  And with those types of issues they need to seek professional help.

I believe in family and love and while Tiger cheated it may not be because he doesn’t love his wife.  It could be because he suffers with an addiction problem he is having a hard time controlling.

While it’s none of our business what goes on in his family life it is hard not to follow the media coverage.  Let me know what you think and only time will tell if he can save this marriage or if it will go up in smoke.

Have passion.

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