Breaking up is one of the unfortunate side effects of dating.
There is going to come a point in every one’s life when they get dumped, it’s natural. But the thing about this is that if you are not learning from these relationships no matter if they are short lived or long term you are never going to grow from them. That is of course if you are using them this way.
It’s amazing how many people rather just blame the other person with silly excuses rather then taking a look at themselves.
Here is the first important thing that you should know. It takes two people to cause a breakup, and if you are continuously blaming the other person you are going to continue having these problems. There needs to come a point in your life when you take a good hard look at yourself and evaluate your past relationships.
I truly believe that every experience that we have in life whether its good or bad doesn’t come without a lesson and if you continue on without making the changes that are necessary they will continue to happen until you do. How much of that is true I don’t know it’s not a fact just a simple opinion? But think about that for a moment, and can you see that in your life based on your experiences.
There’s not a single person on this earth that wants to admit that they have a problem. It could be a large as having trust issues to as simple as wanting too shower the person with love.
What was the issue in your relationships that constantly came up? This is something that you need to sit down and think about. It’s not going to be easy especially if you have recently separated with someone that you loved, but it’s the perfect way to help you through this time.
You can find a good amount of information online about how to improve yourself. Self-help books have become increasingly more popular over the years, and it may be directly related to the fact that you can secretly order them online without any of those embarrassing moments at a store. You can find books on confidence building, improving your self esteem, learning how to trust and much more. Determine what you need and begin making the necessary changes in your life. This is all going to take time, but it’s going to be worth it.