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Not the Language of Love…

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Warning: If you are offended by language, profanity or open discussion about sex, love and/or relationships, read no farther. This article is possibly not for you. If you have ever tried to ban something, or participated in such a ban, stop reading now! This post is not for anyone who is intellectually bankrupt or has no capacity or will to advance a conversation either in public or private. Again, if you are easily offended, STOP READING NOW!!!!!!!!

 

Not the Language of Love…

With that said, let’s get to the heart of the matter. My post today was originally planned to open a conversation around sexual relationships and how we need not be frightened to use the language we have so graciously been provided. Instead, I must address not only this but, the growing ignorance regarding the restraint and now censorship of language itself.

 

I would like to thank Jay Simcic for his post from yesterday. I will not cover the post, you may via the provided link, and I suggest you do so. His point is timely and well taken.

Source: Fifty Shades Of Grey Banned

We have evolved to a societal apex of enlightened stupidity. Who the hell is in charge of anything in Brevard County, Florida? Way to go dumbasses! You attempted to ban 2 Live Crew. You got a federal judge to rule in favor of the lyrics being obscene. The album and the band were launched into stardom by your intolerance and ignorance. Then, to add insult to injury, the ruling was overturned by a federal appeals court. Free publicity for the band, tax dollars spent for no reason and all you got, to quote Bill Engvall, “Here’s you sign”.

I hope you didn’t rid yourselves of the first sign, because with the removal of the book “50 Shades of Grey” from your libraries, you may just need it. I don’t think there will be litigation, but look at the publicity your stupidity is providing both your county and the book. The book isn’t the issue as much as possibly the education system. Who teaches hate, intolerance, and ignorance on this scale? This must be the Ivy League of stupidity.

Where are we today when we engage one another? Do we intentionally hide behind some false moral code in order to hide our feelings and thoughts? In my opinion, yes.

If you don’t like a band, don’t buy or listen to their music. If you don’t like a book, don’t read it. If you don’t like a movie (The Last Temptation of Christ), don’t drive from your home, don’t withdraw the amount of money required for a ticket from your wallet, don’t buy the ticket and don’t watch the movie.

Radio stations, talk show hosts, television programs, music, movies, art, books, they are all either a form of expression or a medium of such. Banning any part or person destroys the public forum of communicating with each other.

I get that not everything is appropriate for all ages. I get that not everything is appropriate for all places. But to stifle the conversation without regard for anyone but a few mental midgets is counter productive on a universal scale.

Now, for the REAL Conversation

My point for today is the open discussion of sex and sexuality. I want to put the forum in perspective before I write another post so that WE (YOU, ME, US) can have a discussion. Nothing more than people sharing in an open conversation without fear, suppression or concern. That’s where I am today and I want you to join me.

Interested? I hope so. Everything we have, everything we do and everything we share is done through language. You are reading this now because of language. You speak to another because of language. We tell others that we love them because of language. We communicate everything, anything and nothing because of language. And above all, I refuse to allow it to be suppressed or killed off. Join me, PLEASE!

I will not promise to be acceptable. I will not promise to be politically correct. I will not promise to keep it safe for work. But I will promise to communicate and provide open dialog regarding sex, relationships and love as I know it.

Join me or screw off, I don’t care. But, if you’ve read this far, what are you thinking?

We are about to embark on a very interesting journey, a clearing house of conversation and ideas, sharing interests and desires. If you don’t have the stomach for it, so be it. But don’t be surprised when the secrets you keep become the poison that kills your relationship.

What is Taboo?

Sex is not taboo. Learning about sex in a healthy manner is not taboo. We used to teach it in school. Having sex is not taboo, but suppressing discussion based on fear and ignorance certainly should be.

In my up coming book all of this is discussed in detail and we reveal why we share and don’t share information about sex with each other or our children. The reasons are clear and well defined, yet we are afraid of what we don’t know. So let’s dig in and get with it and above all, have fun within the discussion.

Next week I will get back to the point I wanted to cover today. It is dirty, profane and possibly vulgar, but we are talking about sex. Let’s get dirty with it.

So be Forewarned: If Words Scare YOU, Avoid My Posts in the Future.

I will be challenging each of you to get involved in the conversation. Get your families involved, get your friends involved, get your lovers involved, but get involved.

Does the word vagina make you uncomfortable or excited? Does the word penis make you cringe with fear or bring you to erotic thought? There is your homework assignment for next week. If you can’t handle these words, you better hang on to your ass next week.

Until then, please leave me a comment. Love it, hate it, but talk about it. Invite me into your would and I will share mine, but don’t back off now we are only getting started.

Love with no shame and ask with no fear.

Bobby

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5 Ways To Get Your Ex Back

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get your ex backWe all have emotions and love will be the strongest passion of them all. Consequently, when love stops,  it may possibly seem fatal. But you’ll find techniques to win back lost love. This article will look at 5 strategies to pursue when you might be trying to acquire your lover back again.

Initially, you may need to be honest to your self and to each other. If there were underlying troubles in your relationship, it really is vital that you just address them. For instance, if housework was a large issue, you may need to address it before you’ll be able to get together again. In case you are messy and your ex was a neat freak, it can lead to a considerable amount of stress within the relationship. If 1 man or woman felt they were doing all the housework, it can trigger a strain. Finances are an additional area exactly where there could be strain. To win back lost love, you could address these areas before you get back together.

Next, you should be a dependable person. If the break up happened already, you’ll need to be dependable even through you are separated. If your ex asks you to be somewhere, get there early even though you no longer have a “responsibility”. For instance, if she’s moving, lend a helping hand and your truck or car. If he wants somebody to review his resume, do it for him.

Third, encourage your ex. One of the factors men and women miss when they break up could be the encouragement their partner gives them. So, to win lost love again, try to discover exactly where they’re discouraged and cheer them up. If they’re having a performance review at work, send an email timed just right to get them in a good mood prior to the meeting. If they’re singing a solo at church, show up to give them some moral support.

Fourth, listen to them when they call. Most people, after a break up, keep some level of communication. Usually, this degenerates into fights. But, in case you genuinely listen to the items your ex is telling you, you might be able to figure out a way to acquire respect and friendship into their lives. Encourage them to share their troubles with you. Really do not try to solve them. Just let them express their concerns with existence. Be a sounding board.

Fifth, do not sit around the sidelines. Existence is meant to be played on the playing field. You have to be the quaternary of your own life. Do not give up the relationship unless you’re ready to move on. These things aren’t going to get better on their own. You’ve got to go out and do something, no matter what.

In case you want to win love back, you’ve got to take this 5 part action guide to heart. You might have to become proactive.

The most significant thing is to genuinely care about your ex and to show him or her that you just do care. You shouldn’t be worried if they date other folks.  Set them free, and if you’re right for them, they will be back.

You need to know that it’s feasible to win back lost love. Now go out there and do it!

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How To Overcome Communication Problems In Relationships

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If you want to even begin thinking of saving a relationship the first place you should start is on your communication with your partner. If you’re not communicating that’s not a good thing. Here are a few tips for you to try to overcome your communcation problems in relationships and start saving your relationship

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Save This Marriage – Strategies For Convincing A Spouse To Save A Marriage

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Imagine… your partner is seconds away from leaving with packed bags. What do you do. How do you convince your partner that you want to save this marriage. Here are a few tips on where to start.

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